It was the summer of 1976 and I was eleven years old. In the Arkansas heat we played at the elementary playground around the corner from our house. I was in sixth grade that year and junior high was just around the corner. That old elementary playground was right out of a 1950’s yearbook. The fire-engine red, all metal jungle-gym (monkey bars, we called them), the fifteen foot tall swing set with seats for six, a steel slide that you could cook an egg on and wooden see-saws with no handles at all became our whole universe of imagination before we discovered the finer things in life. We hung upside down on the monkey bars. We flew like eagles from the swings, jumping out at just the right time. We burned our hands and legs on that slide, and we thumped each other on the old see-saws, jumping off at the bottom and causing our opposites to land with a painful thud. No supervision. The only rules were the ones we made up. We didn’t know it then, but it was blissful freedom.
The United States of America was turning two hundred years old that July. Schoolhouse Rock had special cartoons about it. We read about the signing of the Constitution in school, as well as the Revolutionary War. I loved it all. History has always been my bag. I can read history all day long, just don’t ask me to do long division. That’s just how I’m wired.
There was a girl in my class who liked me. Don’t ask me why, because she had to tell me for me to know. I’m still kind of like that. You’ve got to slap me in the face with the obvious or I’ll miss it. Anyhow, this girl wanted us to be “girlfriend and boyfriend”, but I had no earthly idea how to go about it. She was bold enough to ask me, face to face, one day when we were alone on the playground. I was hesitant. Shy. Just a bit suspicious. So she bribed me. She had an oversized plastic quarter that was a “bicentennial coin” mock-up. Bicentennial is just a big word for “two hundred years”. She said she’d give it to me if I’d be her boyfriend. Well, like I said, I DO love history. So, I agreed. She said we had to kiss, too. That wasn’t as hard a sell as being her “boyfriend”. No surprise there, huh? Men, right?
So, I kissed her. My first kiss. Eleven years old. Her lips were plump and sweet. Her eyes were closed, and we shared a few seconds of an exhilarating new experience as we clumsily fell into the trap of adolescence. It was a moment I’ll never forget. I really loved that coin. I wish I knew where it was now.
History is a beautiful thing. Here I am, fifty years later, and the anniversary of my first kiss looms as our nation is turning two hundred and fifty years old. Neither of us look the same as we did back then. We’ve both been through a lot, made a lot of mistakes, and had to pay the price for our own stupidity at times. We’re no “spring chicken” anymore. I’d like to think we’re both more mature, seasoned and, possibly, wiser for all we’ve been through but maybe I’m being wishful. Our nation is still not perfect. Our leaders even more so. And I’m still chasing that sweet kiss from a girl named Laura. Not the same Laura, but definitely the right one. I guess history does repeat itself. Maybe it’ll all work itself out at the end of the story. My life did. Where there’s life, there’s hope.
God bless Y’all.